crossroads

have you ever lose your way? see no signs to leading you on? wondering what actually your mistake was? well, i have. often.

it's not good at all, knowing you're lost. knowing you make any mistakes, knowing there's another people who could've done it better than you. so hard to accept that fact but sometimes, you have to face it, whether you will like it or not.

but, the bad news is, the hardest part is not over yet! after those things that make us confused, we have to face the biggest giant, deciding what's next. there's only one reason why we have to do it carefully: it will impact your whole future.

failure is the most unexpected part in the world. but now, when we get that 'special gift', what should we do now? only two choices left: give up or work harder.

theorytically, we'll answer: DON'T GIVE UP! but it's amazing when the fact is many people were giving up after the first failure. we know why. failure leaves scars. failure gives you a big loser mark on your forehead. it's better to be realistic than optimistic, they said.

when you've decided to keep chasing your dreams, it's not getting easier, too. but what makes some people keep the faith is they always see the prize. they don't see the obstacles, they already knew it. they know they have to work billions times harder. it's not easy, i repeat, it's not easy.

do you think the greatest piano player enjoy every rehearsal when his friends are having fun with the girls? do you think the most succesful businessman doesn't hate all the jobs they have to do in the middle of the night? they cried sometimes. but mostly, all the hard work is worth the prize.

the next you failed on something and someone ask you, "are you giving up now?", just answer, "hell to the no.".